I always thought appearances are contrary to the truth and this lady proves it. Enjoy
Wanting it is not enough April 10, 2009
I was a sucker for reality TV shows for a while. And every time there was some kind of competition I would hear the contestants repeat over and over “I should win because I want it more and more”. Truth is, wanting it is not enough.
Don’t take me wrong, we have all seen people who seem to create something out of nothing out of sheer will. I believe I have been that person several times. But the truth is, when we manifest something we want and it “fits” perfectly into our lives, it is very rarely due to effort.
This means that I do not believe we manifest the best things in our lives by “working so hard”. Not the stuff that really matters.
We manifest by being what we want before it happens. I remember that the week before I met my husband I would walk in the subway feeling “in love”. To the point that I would forget to swipe my card. And I had no “reason” to be in love, since I was not in a relationship. I just had a lot of support around me telling me it was coming my way so I felt it. It was awesome.
Right now, I am in the phase of my life where I am ready to take my contributions to the world to a very large distribution model. There are a few things along the way I am excited to manifest and I can tell you when it’s going to happen because I feel it.
If I can’t feel it in advance, it’s because either I want something for my ego, not my true self or I am not ready for it. It’s ok. Life is good, I am taken care of.
Now go feel it please!
Reality March 27, 2009
Let’s do it the scientific way:
- If my being miserable will not help people being less miserable
- If it starts with one person, at home, one step at a time
- If Einstein was correct in thinking that depending on where you are when you look at an event you could see two different events,
Then it’s totally up to me to decide what is real (for me). Better yet, it would be smart to choose the reality that makes me happy. Because if I am happy, then I would be nicer to people. And if I am nicer then other people may just be happier. So why not choose to see what we want?
Thank you for reading!
breakdowns and breakthroughs February 24, 2009
I used Facebook’s notes a few days ago to share with my friends how Awesome my life is. I was asked why I did not put it here so here it is:
I have an incredible life and sometimes I need to write it down just to believe it’s true. I am married to the love of my life and we have the two most delicious fun human being I can imagine.
I live in a home I love that truly reflects how much fun I have in life.
I do a job where I get to work with young artists and support them in building the life they love.
I have more money than I need.
I am working on creative projects that make me smile and giggle:)
I have brilliant friends who inspire me every day.
I get to see great shows for free.
I can connect with people I have not seen for a long time in minutes (or days if you don’t check your email too often).
I love more every day.
I get up knowing that it’s up to me to choose to create the life I love.
I find new ways to make my and other people’s dreams come true every day.
I hope it inspires you to do the same:)
On Sunday morning I did some meditation and realized I was finally coming into my own, finding out what my true expression is, and I felt very excited about it. It was a huge breakthrough for me.
And in the afternoon, my foot gives up and I get a bad sprain. On top of that, I feel sick. What? But my life should be exciting and inspiring right now! Well, welcome to the “No, I can’t be that big” Sophie’s world.
I know now this was a bump in the road and not the end of the road. I know I need to take a break and take care of myself. I also need to tell myself it’s ok for all my dreams to come true.
Sophie
Here is an interesting little video called “Did You Know”?
Stop blaming it on the economy January 15, 2009
Many businesses and organizations are facing challenging questions right now in regards to their operating budget. Many were counting on sources of revenue that are no longer safe. And doom and gloom is all over, with people “blaming it on the economy”. And yes, I know we are all connected now so if one does poorly, many of us do poorly as well.
But is that a reason for giving up or worse, blaming it on the economy and not do anything about it? This is insane! We are responsible human beings who build, create and invent every day. Why can’t we create new sources of revenue? Why can’t we re-invent ourselves and continue to be happy in a different setting? We are the most adaptable species after all.
I am very happy that a new, young president is taking over and I wish him lots and lots of success. But remember what he said all along: while the government can and will help, it is our individual responsibility to create it for ourselves.
For my part, I have never felt so rich in my life and it is not due to my salary since I work for the state. I know the Universe has tons of resources I have not explored yet and I am super excited to explore some new ones.
What are you doing about it?
My New Year’s intentions January 2, 2009
Resolution has such an air of “unmovable” that I feel it is deemed to failure by essence – life is a moving piece, if we don’t keep moving, we get hurt.
So this year, I have clear intentions:
- Reconnecting to my spiritual self so that I can trust my instinct.
- Write the book, write the ideas, write all my heart’s content
- Have so much fun I don’t even notice I am accomplishing more this year than in the last 5 years (and since I gave birth to 2 babies in the last five years, you know this means I am going to accomplish a lot).
- Always feel how I want to feel before I do anything.
- Continue to be grateful for all that I have.
- Feel constantly like I am worth millions of dollars.
- Feel like a sex goddess.
- Feel heard, appreciated and handsomely compensated.
- Inspire my kids and the world around me to continue to be happy.
Mmmmm….. This is a good year already!
Hi! Hi! Hi! December 19, 2008
Nope, I’m not trying to say Ho ho ho with a French accent, the title is really me trying to laugh in writing!
I am giddy from the relief I feel today. I spent the better part of this week feeling dumb, heavy and overall unhappy with myself. Worst was Monday, and I realized I could not go from desperate to super happy right away so I accepted to feel better and better and I did it! With a lot of love for myself and from the people in my life, I am now able to say I have an EXTRAORDINARY life. Yes, I do.
Did you know I got the job I really wanted this year? Did you know I made new great friends who take me as I am? Did you know I reconnected with some old friends regardless of the distance? But most of all, did you know I am a great wife, mother and friend?
And the beauty of it all is I finally accepted that I am artist! It feels so gooooooood to say it! I write, I paint, I dance and can even make music! I am also super excited about what will be created in 2009 out this new “artiste”!
Hopefully I will be able to share some of it. But also, do share with me your own artist. Please!
Happy Holidays! Ho ho ho I have a mustache! (quote Ruby Mihalko).
What do I really want? December 14, 2008
Every time I find myself stuck in a situation where either something “uncomfortable” happens or I want something but I don’t get it, I ask myself, what do I really want. ‘Cause I know that ’s what the universe is ready to give me, and often I confuse the how with the want.
So I want to have millions of dollar in the bank. Why?
So that I can fly first class. Why?
So that I am super comfortable and rested. Ok, so what I really want is to fly super comfortable and rested. I will ask for that now.
I want this person to write back to my email. Why?
So that I know they read me and feel that what I wrote is either appreciated or intellectually challenging enough to be responded too. OK, so I want to feel appreciated and intelligent.
I also want millions of dollars so that I can help other people pursue their dreams and have fun with it all.
So I need to focus on allowing people to pursue their dreams and have fun with that.
Pretty cool process, don’t you think?
Thank you for reading me!
What am I thinking? December 3, 2008
I so want this blog to be an uplifting, inspiring place where I turn life into this intricate series of blessed events and today I find myself challenged to do so.
Today is my birthday and I always felt it was my special day. My friends and family made it wonderful and besides the fact that I was sick today, I should be feeling blessed again tonight. So why am I not?
I had an argument at work with someone whom I consider a friend. It really hurt because this friend was saying things about me that I knew were not true. So it hurt to be misunderstood. I went to lunch with another friend and after being able to “vent” (thank you dear friend!) I realized that I could continue to be upset and turn this into a big deal or let it go and create a peaceful working relationship. I chose the second, but man is it hard! I so want to tell this person how wrong they are about me! I hate being misunderstood. But I can’t find the place to talk to them peacefully so right now I need to let it go.
People who inspire me, who move me every day, people who have shown me how to be the bigger person, please give me the strength to let this go.
I am surrendering to the hurt, knowing that it does not mean in any way that my other friends love me less. Yet knowing that I can’t hide from it anymore.
To those who had a thought for me today on my special day, thank you from the bottom of my heart. I love you very much.
I hope you will let me know when is your special day.
So grateful! November 27, 2008
I just have to say thank you Universe for always listening to me, responding and giving me everything that I want. I am so grateful to be me and to experience my life right now. I am telling you, this thing of picture how I want to feel after I do something before I do it really works.
I am not even wanting to control anyone right now, I am so amazed by how everything just works out.
I am a new soul and sometimes I like acting like an old soul but really, I am just learning.
Happy thanksgiving to you!
